I think this virus is some sort of life setence with no parole. I just found out that my mono is active again, info that is the missing puzzle piece to the leignthy diagnosis I recieved this week. Today's task was to clean the house and prepair dinner. I have cleaned the bathroom and kitchen counter. I did sleep 3 hrs at nap time with the kitties and slept in til 10. I had mono back in November too and my poor cottage house has not rebounded from my lack luster energy and super power of "putting it off".
Voldemort got called into work and he wasnt able to help, thus far I have found 3 socks in the dining room as I have been flitting about in my house. The socks dont bother me, I just dont want to clean all day long as my house becomes less like a love nest and more like a rats nest. We talked about this and he commits to cleaning at some point in the rooms that he knows where things go. I am taking the time to label things in the bathroom- when I was sick he could not find the vicks or his comb. Or his keys and wallet. Note to self, get a place for him to put his stuff when he gets off of work rather than on the floor.
It is weird right now. I am in bliss having him here. This morning he asked how I was doing with us "being together for the longest stretch this far." The question sort of took my breath away. We had been sleeping in the same bed for 8 nights, ate 8 dinners and had countless medication doses. We are doing fantastic. The cleaning is our only gripe each of us have. I am stunned that it has been 8 nights. I have always thought that there was a stereotype of a temptress or really fun person whose boyfriend visited, stayed the night and then just never left. Instead, I was sick so he stayed and then I was off work so he stayed. I am not sure what tomorrow will bring, usually he goes home Sunday. I don't know if I want him to go home, and I know that I want more space in my bed. I'm conflicted.
Statistically, 50% of couples who cohabitate before marriage end in divorce. I have not seen the reality of this stat, but don't wish to find myself one of the divorcees. Voldemort and I have discussed this stat. He doesnt believe it and I do. What are your thoughts?
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Thursday, February 16, 2012
Valentines Week
Voldermort and I are in a fledgling relationship. As you know. This is how we celebrated our day.
3 girlfriends
Marmalade is very territorial, she has decided that Voldemort comes over only to see her. She dotes on him and scowels when he snuggles with me. Marm has decided that she has boyfriend. You should see her giddy little trott when she meets him at the door. She was the first one of us to kiss him.
Patches has taken a shine to Voldermort and loves a good scratch from her boy. Patches even will sit next to him while he games. She typically doesnt like people and seems to have a Voldemort mew that she does when she misses her boy. She calls him "thumbs" since he opens her food. Patches didn't have much interest in Voldemort until he gave her treats and helped at meal time. Now she comes to Thumbs and asks for a nibblet.
And now there is me. Unfortuantely, I am the "mistress" who steals time away from my furry roommates.
In accordance with my kitties new love, I helped them purchace specail gifts for Voldermort's Valentines gift. Marmalade got him a gushy card that started with "to my boyfriend" and a dvd so that they could have a date night. Marmalade isnt let out side and is frustrated that she has not got to have a "proper date" yet. Patches got him some chocolates and a card that was about food and wrote the card out for Thumbs.
"it puts the lotion in the basket"
Voldemort likes to pet the kitties and pets my leg. Very funny since he feels I am human kittie bc I sleep on their schedule and like my belly rubbed. Purring is the only missing element. I laugh when he does it and insert that quote. Needless to say we use that quote often. And it has increased to asking about lamp shade sizing and optimal space on the body to fit on said shade.
Voldermort has began to have fancy taste and likes scented lotion. Perhaps so that he can smell his pray as he makes a skin snow suit. Who knows. I asked him to put the knives in the trunk of the car, so I would be safe. lol.
I pondered what girlie things to get him for vday and stumbled upon this BRILLIANTLY EVIL IDEA. I got out of my travel sized and sample sized lotions. Bought some purse sized lotions and started gluing. The masterpiece included hollagram hearts on toothpicks nestled between lotion bottles with greenery at the base.
He laughed so hard. Few people get lotion bouquets.
Present a day
I managed to get Voldemort a present a day. I wont go into all of them. The hilights are above. He surprised me by arranging a boquet of fake flowers that are in my fav colors. He ordered a boquet of roses and had it delivered to my work (then picked it up from my office and brought it home since I was too sick to work). Voldemort also got me chocolates and a card that made me tear up. He done good. We will be going to Build a Bear Workshop so I can get my valentines bear. I am so excited.
3 girlfriends
Marmalade is very territorial, she has decided that Voldemort comes over only to see her. She dotes on him and scowels when he snuggles with me. Marm has decided that she has boyfriend. You should see her giddy little trott when she meets him at the door. She was the first one of us to kiss him.
Patches has taken a shine to Voldermort and loves a good scratch from her boy. Patches even will sit next to him while he games. She typically doesnt like people and seems to have a Voldemort mew that she does when she misses her boy. She calls him "thumbs" since he opens her food. Patches didn't have much interest in Voldemort until he gave her treats and helped at meal time. Now she comes to Thumbs and asks for a nibblet.
And now there is me. Unfortuantely, I am the "mistress" who steals time away from my furry roommates.
In accordance with my kitties new love, I helped them purchace specail gifts for Voldermort's Valentines gift. Marmalade got him a gushy card that started with "to my boyfriend" and a dvd so that they could have a date night. Marmalade isnt let out side and is frustrated that she has not got to have a "proper date" yet. Patches got him some chocolates and a card that was about food and wrote the card out for Thumbs.
"it puts the lotion in the basket"
Voldemort likes to pet the kitties and pets my leg. Very funny since he feels I am human kittie bc I sleep on their schedule and like my belly rubbed. Purring is the only missing element. I laugh when he does it and insert that quote. Needless to say we use that quote often. And it has increased to asking about lamp shade sizing and optimal space on the body to fit on said shade.
Voldermort has began to have fancy taste and likes scented lotion. Perhaps so that he can smell his pray as he makes a skin snow suit. Who knows. I asked him to put the knives in the trunk of the car, so I would be safe. lol.
I pondered what girlie things to get him for vday and stumbled upon this BRILLIANTLY EVIL IDEA. I got out of my travel sized and sample sized lotions. Bought some purse sized lotions and started gluing. The masterpiece included hollagram hearts on toothpicks nestled between lotion bottles with greenery at the base.
He laughed so hard. Few people get lotion bouquets.
Present a day
I managed to get Voldemort a present a day. I wont go into all of them. The hilights are above. He surprised me by arranging a boquet of fake flowers that are in my fav colors. He ordered a boquet of roses and had it delivered to my work (then picked it up from my office and brought it home since I was too sick to work). Voldemort also got me chocolates and a card that made me tear up. He done good. We will be going to Build a Bear Workshop so I can get my valentines bear. I am so excited.
Wednesday, February 8, 2012
St. Valentines day is coming up and I am excited to have my first
vday with Voldermort. In case you havent heard about him, I should open
with that story.
Voldermort. He is 24, loves cats and very nice. I have known him many years bc he is my oldest bff's brother. It occurred to me that he was all that I had ever wanted in one package and very cute as well. I had a short time away from Chrissy and when I came back I saw his Sr pic. I chose to leave my feelings aside until last spring. Many signs were there that he was interested so I told Chrissy that I was interested in him. She kinda missed that I was asking to date her brother and then was surprised when I took her advice and spent some time with him. We went to the corn maze in October and have spent every wknd together since then.
He is called voldermort since he is my bffs brother and some things are freaky for her when I talk about her brother's jammies, ect...
One day Chrissy and I had been talking and she said
"give me some details"
"U dont wanna know"
"NO really"... "Just don't use his name"
"really?"..."we can call him VOLERMORT! he who shall remain nameless"
Voldermort. He is 24, loves cats and very nice. I have known him many years bc he is my oldest bff's brother. It occurred to me that he was all that I had ever wanted in one package and very cute as well. I had a short time away from Chrissy and when I came back I saw his Sr pic. I chose to leave my feelings aside until last spring. Many signs were there that he was interested so I told Chrissy that I was interested in him. She kinda missed that I was asking to date her brother and then was surprised when I took her advice and spent some time with him. We went to the corn maze in October and have spent every wknd together since then.
He is called voldermort since he is my bffs brother and some things are freaky for her when I talk about her brother's jammies, ect...
One day Chrissy and I had been talking and she said
"give me some details"
"U dont wanna know"
"NO really"... "Just don't use his name"
"really?"..."we can call him VOLERMORT! he who shall remain nameless"
Monday, February 6, 2012
I have been enjoying blogs lately and thought it was time to add my remarks to the blogosphere.
Todays high point: 1) A client who was hopeless is now hopeful
2) Finding a cute stuffed kittie in my inbox
Todays high point: 1) A client who was hopeless is now hopeful
2) Finding a cute stuffed kittie in my inbox
3) The simpleness of sitting on the floor and doing progress notes
4) Remembering the close bonds I have made during my life.
 |
| MAC IV 2009 |
Todays low point 1) Wishing I have a teleporter so that I can do more things in a day and not drive my car
2) Finding out from an Agent that a client blatenly lied
3) Telling someone that their behavior was bad enough that they were now closed.
Subscribe to:
Comments (Atom)